Second Best Part 1

I want God's best for my life. I want His best for my children. I want to live in His perfect will and not outside of it.  I don't want SECOND best, or anything beyond that for that matter.  Unfortunately, we as Christians find ourselves derailed and off the BEST path that God had planned for us and instead we settle for something good, something that just o.k. Are you tired of second best? Maybe you have found yourself far from God's best and you aren't quite sure how you got there.  Did you know that the nation of Israel had this very same problem? They settled for second best when they refused to wait for God to give them David as King, and they demanded Saul be their King.  Fortunately, they left us a trail. In the passages in this account in the book of first Samuel, we see the trail that led them away from God's best for them.  We are left with a choice; learn from the trail they left and stay on God's best path for our lives, or make the same mistakes they did. This will be a 6 part blog series that I hope you will stick with me for each step.  Each step we look at will be a crucial mistake that Israel made on their path away from God's best and we will learn from their mistakes so that we can stay on course to God's BEST in our lives. 
--> It was not that God had not planned for His people to be ruled by a king; it was not that He didn’t love His people with His life; it was all about His timing and His plan.  He had all of these details worked out for their future (See 1 Sam. 2:10) only they could not wait for it, they needed it now and they got exactly what they asked for.  God made allowance for them and stepped aside as they ushered in the rule of the monarchy, unfortunately it was only God’s second best, not His first choice.

-->Step one: My gaze becomes vertical instead of horizontal

(1 Samuel 8:1-9)

Distractions that pull our gaze away:

   

a.     Disappointments and Hurts- 8:1-4

What a bigger disappointment than to  have   your own children make bad choices? Samuel was in that very position.  Looking back at Eli and his sons, Hophni and Phineas (2:22), Eli shared in the blame for the spiritual state of his sons.  He knew of their sin and even participated in it at times, and therefore he bore the responsibility for the rebellion of his sons.  However, in this passage 8:2, it doesn’t say that Samuel was a partaker in the sins of his sons. In fact it says they were NOT like their father.  They made bad choices in spite of what they had been taught.  Can you imagine the disappointment that Samuel felt? The hurt? Because of these disappointments Israel demanded a “new” way to be led.  

They allowed these hurts to pull down their gaze; off of the Lord and onto man.  Can Satan use our own children to cause us to choose second best in life? Can Satan use our closest friends to get our eyes of Christ? Can he use our spouse? The answer is a resounding YES!  If we all could say we have a “panic” button that when pressed we become paralyzed in service for Christ, then that “panic” button would certainly be the hurts and disappointments of those closest to us.  Does it shake your faith when someone you love walks away from it? When your pastor falls into sin? Why does that shake our faith? Is it possible that our faith is not focused on the only one who NEVER disappoints, Jesus Christ?  Don’t allow your disappointments, your hurts to pull your gaze off of the Jesus.

b.     Jealousy and Envy – 8:5

These two ugly monsters are so destructive.  It’s interesting the Jealousy and Envy can pull down your gaze as well as they can be the result of taking our eyes off Jesus. Israel saw the others around them and they wanted what the other nations had.  It’s the “pasture is greener on the other side” mentality.  Unfortunately when we allow Jealousy and Envy to infiltrate our hearts, we always take our eyes off Jesus and choose second best.  When you feel the root of Jealousy growing inside of you, confess it immediately! Ask God to give you strength to keep looking up! Confess it to a mentor if you continue to struggle with it and ask them to be your accountability partner.  Jealousy left unchecked and allowed to grow WILL destroy you!  It will lead you down a path that is not God’s best for you!

The nation of Israel allowed hurts, disappointments, jealousy, and envy to lead them to second best.  The antidote for this is simple: Keep your eyes on Jesus! Even if someone hurts you? Even if your closest loved ones disappoint you? Even if your pastor lets you down? YES! Do not allow anything, and I mean anything to pull your focus off of Jesus because as surely as you do, you will start settling for second best. Stay tuned for step 2 to second best and how we can conquer it!

Fuel for the Journey: Doing the opposite of the usual Christian "code"

Let's face it folks, the Christian life can be hard.  To be really honest, all of life can be hard.  For sake of illustration I'd like to compare it to a road trip across a rough terrain.  The day we accept Christ we start at point "A" and we are supposed to finish our journey with the words "well done, though good and faithful servant." Unfortunately many of us get weary on the journey and somewhere along the trip we get "derailed" or we simply run out of fuel and decide to just set up camp somewhere along the road.  It goes something like this: I'm serving the Lord and headed down this Christian life and all is going well. Then something difficult arises: a trial, an illness, a heartbreak, you name it.  At this point we do what we "think" we are supposed to do as believers.  We "pull over" long enough to catch our breath and then we decide we are going to Trust God! After all, isn't this the "Christian Code"? Trust God, then Believe that He has a plan, then after you've completed those 2 things then you are rewarded with Experiencing God.  This sounds all well and good, but what nobody tells you is it's really hard.  The "fuel" that drives us forward is actually the final step in this process, Experiencing God.  So only those who have incredible stamina make it to the Experiencing God phase which fuels them to keep on.  What's wrong with this, is that the vast majority of believers can't get through step one and two and so they give up.  It's so hard for them that they just decide to be content with where they are and forget about moving forward.  To make matters worse, the "elite few" who make it to the final step then turn back to judge and or motivate the rest to push through.  Those left behind look at the few that made it through as unattainable or impossible to reach.  This creates a huge gap between Christians and each side ends up judging the other and finding fault in the ones on the other side. 
Well, in my study of Samuel, I stumbled on a really profound truth that I think could end this cycle.  I have been studying the actions of Hannah, Samuel's mother.  She suffered much anguish because she wanted a child and could not have one.  Then, when God gave her a son, she then turned around and gave him back to the work of the Lord when he was just a small child.  Right after she has given away her precious little boy, who she prayed for for so long, the Bible records a song that she sang to the Lord.  Here was Hannah, on her Christian journey, who just faced something very hard and the first thing she does is:
Experience God (1 Samuel 2:1-5) 
Hannah's FIRST action is to experience the Joy of the Lord.  She smiled as she faced her enemies.  She felt that amazing elation of being in the presence of the Almighty God and she gave all glory back to God for that joy.
Ok, hold the mustard, you mean that Hannah did first what we tell Christians they should do last in their trial? YEP
Because Hannah first experienced God, she then was "fueled" for her journey and NOW she could
Believe God (1 Samuel 2:3-5)
I know what you are thinking, this is really backwards. Is it? Or is it really the right way all along, and we turned it all around? Hannah, after experiencing the Joy of the Lord, now believed that He would set all things right.  She believed that God would keep His promises to her and bless her for her faithfulness.  So, now that she had experienced God, and believed God for her trial, she was at the place to trust Him. 
Trust God (1 Samuel 2:6-11)
Hannah now trusted in the strength of God to sustain her, to set all things right.  Hannah would need the strength of the Lord in order to give her firstborn and much loved son to the priesthood.
Because we as Christians get this process backwards, we run out of fuel before we ever experience God and therefore we fall short and exhausted.  We end up as Christians who NEVER have that amazing joy of the Lord because we stop trying.  Hannah had the right strategy.  She FIRST experienced the presence of God which fueled her journey through believing Him and then finally to trusting Him. Trusting God isn't easy, especially if you have never experienced Him. Maybe our problem isn't that we have a bunch of lazy Christians and a bunch of arrogant elite Christians.  Maybe the real problem is we have been doing this thing backwards all along?

Dressed for Death, Left for Life

Have you ever considered the importance of the grave clothes that Jesus left behind in the tomb? Consider another time when someone rose from the dead.  John 11:43-44 gives us a clear word picture of the appearance of Lazarus after Jesus called him out of the tomb.  He was still wrapped in his grave clothes and needed to be loosed from them.  Now picture the scene of Jesus' Resurrection. John 20:4-8 paints a very different word picture than the scene of Lazarus.  In this tomb we see the grave clothes lying empty and the grave napkin folded neatly.  Why would Lazarus still be in his grave clothes and yet Jesus left his? The answer is simple and yet profound.  One day Lazarus would need those grave clothes again, but Jesus Christ would NEVER again need burial clothes.  He was alive and still is alive today! He left the cloths marked with the stench of death behind as he conquered it for us! Why also would Jesus fold the napkin on his face? For me, and for you! That was his evidence, his irrefutable proof that he in fact was not stolen, but instead RISEN.  As investigators seek for proof for their cases, we as Christians have that proof in a simple folded napkin.  Praise God we serve a living Savior who conquered death once for all time!
 

Armed Christians

I am the opposite of athletic, completely uncoordinated when it comes to sports, yet when our church joined a church volleyball league when I was a teenager, there I was signed up to participate.  Our coach was a former college volleyball player and she was gifted in the sport.  I faithfully went to practices and did my best, but I simply couldn't even serve the ball over the net.  I remember one occasion where I made a stupid, prideful mistake.  Our coach was so trained and talented that she could dive for the ball without the need for knee pads.  She explained that once you learned the proper way to dive, you wouldn't injure yourself.  Oh, sure, my bright mind figured I could participate in the game without knee pads until I made that first dive onto the cold concrete gym floor and thought I'd lose both my knees.  Consequently, we made a trip to the store the next day to purchase a pair of knee pads.
The day I accepted Christ as my Savior, I signed up for the "team".  The good thing about God's team was that it doesn't matter how much or how little talent a person has, everyone qualifies for the team.  However justification does not protect us from the attacks of Satan.  I believe a lot of Christians "join the team" but never "buy the knee pads".   After we are justified by Christ, we must consciously and daily put on each piece of the armor of God.  Salvation is not the only protection we need from Satanic attack.  I hear so many Christians taking a beating from demonic attack and they feel helpless and defeated.  Ephesians 6:1-18 teaches that we must daily put on God's armor.

The belt of Truth:  This was worn every single day, whether in battle or not.  We must every day start with what is truth.  We are bombarded daily by the lies of Satan. He plants his lies in our minds, in the media, in everything around us.  If we daily stay in God's Word then we keep the Truth close to us and we can decipher the difference.

The breastplate of Righteousness:  This was metal scaled armor to protect the upper body.  There will always be fiery darts aimed at those who are followers of Jesus and we must use Christ's Righteousness as protection.  If I were writing this to a child, I would tell them that they must be careful to do the right thing so that no one can accuse them of wrong, or if they have integrity and live their life striving to do the right thing then false accusation can not harm them.

The shoes that are prepared for the Gospel of Peace:  These sandals were worn all the time, whether battling or not.  Daily preparation for the attacks of Satan are needed to walk the Christian walk.  Also notice that it is the Gospel of peace.  The Gospel is one of peace that brings peace to the heart of the Christians.

The shield of Faith:  This shield was a full body shield that was made of wood and then soaked in water before battle so that the fiery darts would be extinguished when they hit the shield.  Faith (the shield) and water (prayer) protect us from fear and doubt.  This is a crucial piece of the armor for us to put on each day.

The helmet of Salvation:  This is a picture of the believers knowledge of the Word of God and the knowledge they have that Christ is the victor in this spiritual battle.  We have hope, no matter the trial, because we know that Jesus wins!

The sword of the Spirit:  This is the only offensive weapon, so far they have all been defensive.  The Word of God is what we use to fight Satanic attack.  This is why Scripture memorization is so valuable.

Are you injured in your Christian walk by Satanic attack? Maybe it's because you haven't fully and daily armed yourself with the armor that God has provided for each of His children.  God does not leave us defenseless and helpless. 

A Christmas That Isn't Magical?

Last week we celebrated our son's 4th birthday at a local inflatable play land. One inflatable maze was particularly distressing to my little Luke because at the second section it had a "squeeze" tube where the child would squeeze through the inflated nylon fabric. This moment of "gentle" pressure passing through the squeeze was terrifying to Luke.  He went into an almost fit of panic at the thought of pushing through it.  I think that's how a lot of us feel today, "squeezed" by so many things in life, pressed to the point of panic. For some it's the feeling of loss at this holiday season, it's the stress of fighting crowds and materialism at the mall, it's the weight of responsibilities that seem too great, it's the list that is a mile long that you can't seem to accomplish, it's the feeling of inadequacy, or it's the grieving and pain of the terrible loss of children. 

I've heard so many say that these pressures of life have robbed them of the magic of Christmas. It is that particular phrase, "the magic of Christmas", that keeps ringing in my head. It was that particular phrase that drove me to Luke chapter two.  This passage tells of a night when a young, unwed girl gave birth in a barn. Was her Christmas magical? I would say no. I would guess, having given birth twice and in a hospital, that Mary and Joseph's Christmas was filled with fear, pain and panic. It was not magical, BUT it was a miracle.

This account in Luke goes on to tell of a group of shepherds that were "terrified" at what they saw in the sky.  This word "terrified" can also be used as "panic". Would you call a group of men being panicked magical? The shepherds' Christmas wasn't magical, BUT it was a miracle.

What was the message of this MIRACLE Christmas? "Do not be afraid, I bring you good news of great joy". The magic of Christmas is irrelevant and unnecessary. The miracle of Christmas, however, is important. It is a gift of peace, good news and JOY!  The miracle of Christmas is Jesus.  Just saying His name a lone brings a refreshment to the soul. My 4 year old son finally made it through the "squeeze" and on the other side he had such fun.  I don't know what your particular "squeeze" is this holiday season. I don't know what has stolen the magic out of your Christmas.  But I do know that you don't need magic when you have a MIRACLE.  And you can find JOY in Jesus regardless of the "squeeze"!

Faithfulness 101: The Real Truth

I don't like it when spiritual truths are vague and mystical.  I think too many times we who have grown up in Christian homes and have sat in 5, 982 Sunday School lessons ASSUME that everyone understands what we mean when we use big spiritual words.  I've had some good friends who have helped me understand that sometimes it's important to stop and clearly explain what exactly we mean when we spatter off this Christian jargon. We also make the mistake of expecting other Christians to understand what we mean when we discuss these familiar terms.  Today I was led back to one of my favorite Bible Characters (Samuel) and it was like this profound and clear explanation of FAITHFULNESS jumped right off my Bible page at me.  So, maybe you've heard people like me or other Christians pleading with you to be Faithful. Maybe you did understand what it meant, but just in case you  didn't, here is Faithfulness 101 from the life of Samuel.

1.  Faithfulness is not a choice.  I Sam. 1:11, 24-28
From even before Samuel's conception he was dedicated to the Lord.  He did not have nor was given the choice of the service of his life.  Even as a child of 3 he was taught by his mother the purpose of his life.  Why do we as Christians make faithfulness to Bible reading, prayer, Church, Service a choice? We often act as if we have the right to make that decision with our lives.  God has called all of us to be faithful whether we want to or not. 

2. Faithfulness takes sacrifice.  I Sam. 1:26-28
Can you imagine how hard it was for Hannah to leave her precious preschooler in the temple, only to see him again 1 time each year?  It will take sacrifice to faithfully read your Bible, to faithfully attend church, to faithfully serve the Lord.  There may be many times you'd rather rather be watching that move than reading your Bible.  I garauntee there will be times when you have to give up something you'd rather do than serve.  How can we not be faithful after Christ sacrificed so much for us?

3.  Faithfulness means separation.  I Sam. 2:17-18
The 2 sons of Eli the priest (Hophni and Phineas) were living in open and defiant sin to God.  These few chapters are interesting as they show the contrast between Hophni and Phineas and Samuel.  Samuel could have "gone with the crowd" and done exactly what these two older (maybe cooler) boys were doing but instead he remained "faithful" to God's service and God's Words.  Sometimes to be faithful it means we have to say "no, I won't do that" or "no, I won't go there".  It's not always the popular thing to separate from a crowd that is headed to sin, but to be faithful we might need to separate.

4.  Faithfulness means doing what it takes.  I Sam. 3:1
I can only assume that it wasn't the most glamorous job to serve Eli in the temple.  I imagine he had cleaning chores and other manual tasks.  There's usually not a long list of volunteers for jobs of this nature within a ministry, but I don't ever see Samuel complaining about his daily tasks. He did anything and everything he was asked to do.  He did whatever it took to serve his Lord.

5.  Faithfulness means being rewarded.  I Sam. 2:1, 20, 26, 35
God always rewards faithfulness.  This is the primary reason faithful people stay faithful.  They have stayed the course long enough to see the blessings God gives.  Faithful people go to depths of intimacy with the Lord that keep them seeking to be faithful. 

So the next time you hear someone taking about being a "Faithful Christian" you will better understand what exactly that means.  All from the life of a little boy named Samuel. 

Just Sayin'

I made 2 loaves of homemade bread yesterday.  This was my first successful accomplishment of bread making after several failed attempts over the years.  This bread turned out soooooo delicious and my family has really enjoyed it.  I know they want me to keep making it, but it is exhausting! It's complicated!  There is so much work and preparation! You have to mix the yeast and let it sit, add ingredients and let it sit, add more and let it sit, punch down the dough and let it sit, and on and on.  After several hours you FINALLY get to bake it and out comes an amazing, golden brown, delicious warm loaf of bread. 

All I could think about with this experience is how much this symbolizes ministry.  So many Christians want a slice of the bread, but they don't want to do the work to make it! The list is long for people to sign up to join a small group, to be mentored by a small group leader, or to do anything that benefits THEM! Everyone wants to run to the table to enjoy a piece of this amazing bread, but very few are signing up to do the work it takes to get there.  Ministry takes work and there are the same few servants who faithfully show up every week to work, "to make the bread", so that the majority can enjoy.  Maybe it's time for Christians to start carrying their weight. To stop enjoying the bread and start helping to make it.  Maybe it's time to slip out of your small group for a semester and work the nursery.  Think of the impact you could make on that lost and hurting mother by keeping her child in the nursery and letting her feel the love of a Christian family that could change her life.  Christians are always so busy gobbling up the bread that they leave nothing for those who are truly hungry.

Doesn't this remind you of the children's story of the little hen who needed help harvesting the wheat, threshing the wheat and baking the bread? All of her friends were too tired or hot to help.  At the end when the bread was done they conveniently were there to eat the bread.  Of course we know that the hen did not let them eat it because they had not worked for it.  Wow, can you imagine if we didn't allow people to "enjoy" the benefits of ministry until they had served somewhere? We might accuse a church that did that as being harsh.       

"He said to his disciples, “The harvest is great, but the workers are few.   So pray to the Lord who is in charge of the harvest; ask him to send more workers into his fields.”
Mt 9:37–38

How can you work in the house of the Lord? Is it time for you to take your turn "making the bread" so others can enjoy and be fed?